Over the past couple of years, I have met quite a few people via social media, especially Twitter. This past week one of them asked me a truly hard-hitting question, that made me stop and think. I was simply asked, “Why?”. Last year, I started following a blog called: the Blog of Manly. For years now I have been on a quest to better myself as a man. And in doing so I run across many of blogs and posts. I began reading BoM’s posts and interacting with the authors on Twitter. My interactions lead me to following Chris Gould.